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Is Divorce Ever Really Over?

It’s been 2.5 years since my marriage imploded. 1.5 since the divorce was final. During the first year, my email inbox was a ticking time bomb. I never knew when there would be a ranting, raging email from my ex about how everything was my fault, how I never loved him.  In the last six

Why the Double Standard?

I don’t understand why genders differ so much in their approach to sex. Men, particularly those looking for a casual encounter through a dating app, seem to think that any woman would be glad to have the chance to be with them. That there’s no need for stimulation beforehand, either intellectual or emotional. And yet,